inheritance 91024James Brown recorded 16 number-one singles on the Billboard R&B charts including his signature song, “I Feel Good.” Unfortunately, no one is feeling good about the nearly decade-long battle still raging over his estate which began after his death on Christmas Day, 2006.

The majority of Brown’s estate – estimated to be in the tens of millions of dollars – was distributed via his will to the I Feel Good Trust. Brown set up the trust to provide scholarships to underprivileged children in South Carolina and Georgia. To date, none of his estate proceeds have been distributed, however, due to ongoing litigation between Brown’s fourth wife, Tomi Rae Hynie, his seven children, and his trust.

Brown’s estate has devolved into a huge mess for his family. He has seven children and during the estate battle several more people stepped forward claiming they were Brown’s children as well. The legality of his marriage to Hynie has been called into question. Two sets of trustees have already been removed from the case.

Over the last few years the South Carolina Attorney General attempted to broker a deal between the parties and the South Carolina Supreme Court even got involved. The latest twist was a decision in January of 2015 by a South Carolina judge granting a journalist’s Freedom of Information Act request to gain access to emails that include appraisals of Brown’s assets and discussions about Hynie’s diary as well as how much the estate should pay a local law firm involved in the fight over the estate.

As you might imagine, all of this is terribly expensive. Brown’s estate has to foot the bill along with paying millions to creditors, lawyers and other debtors. But not one single dollar has been given to the scholarship program Brown envisioned.

While a challenge to Brown’s will may not have been avoidable considering the number of relatives he left behind, properly transferring his assets to the trust before his death may have prevented much of the litigation and provided the education funds for the children he wanted to help. And since a trust is private, unlike a will, it would have avoided the public scrutiny over his private affairs.

This is a common error made by estate planning lawyers, even those hired by wealthy people like James Brown. Unfortunately, whether someone has significant financial wealth or not, the impact on their family is the same — if the assets are not titled properly in a trust at the time of death, the family members left behind will end up in Court. That’s guaranteed.

If you would like to chat about how an estate plan can help protect your family from the time, expense, and emotional pain of court, call our office today to schedule a time for us to talk. If you already have a plan and want to make sure it doesn’t have mistakes (such as not titling your assets correctly), call us and ask for an estate plan review. The next two callers who mention this article will receive these services free of charge.

To you family’s health, wealth, and happiness,
Marc Garlett 91024

Wills and Trusts 91024“Black Heirlooms” has not received any Oscar nominations even though it is filled with award winning lessons about family. The film was made by 32-year-old Amanda Brown, whose grandmother’s long-term illness ripped her once close-knit family apart for lack of long-term care planning.

Profiled recently in the New York Times, Brown’s film is “about the extended uncomfortable, intergenerational conversations that we do not have enough of and that her family did not have until it was too late.”

Vonley and Edna Mae Royal raised eight children together. Vonley had several businesses during life that provided a small inheritance for his wife after he died. Following his death, the Royal children tried to get Edna Mae to talk about how she wanted the estate divided after she died. She proved resistant to such a discussion, however, and so her children backed off. “We didn’t want to give her the impression that we were trying to gain some kind of advantage,” said her son Gary.

Unfortunately, Edna Mae had a stroke in 2009. Shortly thereafter her children became divided on how she should be taken care of, whether or not she could make decisions for herself, and who should have power of attorney over her affairs. The family eventually wound up in court, exhausting any inheritance they might have had on legal fees and dividing the children.

Today, 90-year-old Edna Mae is taken care of by five of her eight children; the other three do not speak to their siblings and rarely see their mother. The inheritance that Vonley and Edna Mae worked so hard to provide to their children is gone. In the film, Edna Mae’s granddaughter Amanda wonders, “Now that the family is divided, what was the point of working so hard to keep everything intact?”

If you have been putting off this type of conversation in your family, we can help. Executing a comprehensive estate plan can be extremely fulfilling, knowing you are providing and protecting an inheritance for your children, making your wishes known and alleviating your family of the burden of guessing the right health care choices for you.

If you would like to learn more about estate planning for your family, we can help. We can also assist you with that all-important family discussion (which could just be one of the most important discussions your family ever has).

To your family’s health, wealth, and happiness,
Marc Garlett 91024

Estate Planning, 91024One of the many challenges my wife and I face as parents is simply trying to keep the peace between our children. Our six-year-old son and five-year-old daughter can be the best of friends … and the worst of enemies (often alternating between the two multiple times within the span of just a few minutes).

That’s all part of raising small children, but unfortunately, I see this same scenario play out time after time between adult siblings when a messy estate causes family rifts. And it doesn’t need to be that way. In fact, if handled properly, your estate plan should help bring your children together rather than tear them apart. Here are 10 tips to help prevent your children from fighting over your estate:

  1. Talk to children about your estate plan. It may be a difficult discussion to have, but you need to have it. If you find it too difficult, enlist the help of your estate planning attorney to go over the details of your estate plan with your children and answer their questions. In fact, because this is so important I include just such a “family meeting” in every estate plan I put together for my clients.
  2. Write your children a letter. If you can’t face a face-to-face discussion (or even if you can), put it in writing with as much detail as you are comfortable providing to your children. You can frame the discussion in general terms and ask for their input. This is a great way to get them invested in ensuring your plan works the way you want it to.
  3. Email your children your estate plan summary. Your estate planning attorney will usually provide you with a summary of your estate plan that doesn’t disclose details or actual dollar amounts. Ask your estate planning attorney to copy your children on an email with the summary and ask for their input.
  4. For complex estates, consider a mediator. If you have a complicated estate that may include valuable collections or a family business, ask your attorney about bringing in a professional mediator who can meet with you and your children separately to identify any potential issues and then meet with you together to iron out those issues.
  5. Use equal treatment. If possible, leave your children an equal inheritance; most family fights result from children being treated unequally.
  6. If you establish a trust for children, name each child as a co-trustee of their own trust at a certain age. Choose a reasonable age for when you feel a child will be able to participate in managing their own trust so they can learn about handling an inheritance with the guidance of the main trustee.
  7. Consider staggered distributions from a trust. To help a child learn how to manage a substantial inheritance, estate planning experts often advise staggering distributions over a period of time (i.e., age 25, 30, etc.).
  8. Provide children with an option to remove or replace the main trustee. Similar to arranged marriages, you never know if children and trustees will make a go of the relationship. Give children limited power to remove and replace a trustee with a different, qualified trustee.
  9. Allow children to name their own co-trustee. If your children are competent adults, give them the power to name the independent co-trustee of their trust.
  10. Include mediation instructions in your estate plan. Your estate planning attorney can add mediation language so that if a dispute arises, your children will not be tied up in emotionally and financially draining litigation.

If you’d like to ensure your estate plan doesn’t lead to a family feud, I’d be happy to sit down with you and help identify the best strategies to provide for and protect the financial security and family harmony of your loved ones.

To you family’s health, wealth, and happiness,
Marc Garlett 91024

Legacy Planning 91024My wife started a “tradition” our first New Year’s Eve as a married couple. We each wrote down our resolutions for the coming year. That was in 2003. On New Year’s Eve in 2004, we pulled them out to see how we’d done. New Year’s resolutions are not something I would have ever done on my own, at least not in so formal a manner, but that’s just one of the countless ways my wife has broadened my horizons.

We’ve done this now each and every year for eleven years – writing our resolutions for the upcoming year and reviewing our resolutions from the previous one. And each year our resolutions always center on being better spouses to each other and better parents to our children. I love looking ahead to how I can improve in those areas over the next year. But even more, I love looking back at how well I was able to accomplish my goals during the prior year. It’s always an opportunity to reflect, learn, grow, and have an honest and intimate conversation with my wife.

This year again, my resolutions will certainly be focused on making things better for my family. And even if you’re not as formal about New Year’s resolutions as my wife and I are, I’m willing to bet one of your major goals for 2015 is to make things better for your family, too.

I can tell you from personal experience that if getting your estate planning in order is one of those things you’ve been putting off for years, you’ll feel incredible actually getting it done. It’s one of the best things you’ll ever do for your family. And believe it or not, it’s also one of the best things you’ll ever do for yourself. The sense of satisfaction, peace of mind, and accomplishment are deeply fulfilling.

I’m not telling you this simply to try to get your business. To be honest, not everyone who needs estate planning is a good fit for my firm. And my firm isn’t always the right fit for everyone who walks into my office. I don’t take every client who’s willing to pay. The right fit is much more important than money.

I am telling you this because if estate planning is something you’ve been putting off, there’s no better time than the present to take care of it. Your family will thank you (if not now, they certainly will later when they realize you’ve given them the gift of making things as easy as possible for them after you’re gone) and you will have lifted a great weight from your shoulders.

To encourage you to not only make estate planning a part of your resolutions this year, but to help you follow through, I’m offering a complimentary Family Estate Planning Session to the first five people who mention this article when making a January appointment with my office.

A Family Estate Planning Session is a no pressure, no obligation conversation designed to educate you about your options and answer all your questions. If there’s a good fit between you and my firm, great. If not, we’ll be glad to refer you somewhere that may be a better fit.

If you have a family like I do, I know getting your planning handled weighs on you each year. But it doesn’t have to any longer. Make this the year to get it done. Resolve to do it in 2015 and count it as already accomplished before the end of January. I know you’ll be thrilled you did.

Happy new year to you and yours,
Marc Garlett 91024